No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily.
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across
More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you.
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.
Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually
Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future.